Recently, Caring Friends expanded their ministry to include the giving of prayer shawls made by members of the congregation. A prayer shawl is a simple shawl, hand knit or crocheted. They’re always lovely, but never elaborate; the beauty is not in the pattern of the yarn, but in the prayers that have been woven into the shawl by the person creating it.
It’s always a delight to go along on these prayer shawl deliveries. The group of us crams into the person’s living room, or apartment, or nursing home room, perching on the edge of the bed or the corner of a chair. We visit for a few minutes, sharing news of the church and relishing in the joy of catching up with old friends. There’s always a bit of laughter, a joke told, a story remembered. Then we offer the prayer shawl, reminding the recipient that it was made with love and infused with prayer. Almost instinctively, the person takes the shawl and drapes it around his or her shoulders, eager to be surrounded by the love of the church.
One of us reads a blessing that offers our hope for the shawl – that God’s grace may be felt through it, that the joy with which it was made might sustain and encourage the recipient especially when times are tough. One of us offers a prayer, lifting up any particular concerns and worries and giving thanks for the visit. Then we linger a bit, not really wanting to leave the place where God’s spirit is so richly felt. But finally, with another prayer and hugs all around, we say goodbye and make our way out.
I imagine that the room feels empty when we leave. But I hope that the shawl we leave behind offers a little bit of comfort, hope, and peace.


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